About Dating in Your 20s

Dating in Your 20s is for people figuring out apps, texting, situationships and what they actually want, usually all at once.

Every article is sourced and checked. We don't do hacks or scripts. We do patterns: the thing you keep doing, and why.

Part of the BUMIS network. General information, not therapy.

How we write

Every substantive claim links to its source. Articles show who wrote them, when they were published and when they were last checked. We do not invent statistics, quotes, credentials or stories.

We update articles when the evidence changes, and we say what changed.

Who publishes this

Dating in Your 20s is published by BUMIS. BUMIS is not a dating app. It's an app for your dating life. Not a yes-man. It's for when you can't stop thinking about that situationship. The text decision keeping you up at night. The date you loved but still can't quite figure out. The dating patterns you keep seeing in yourself. When we mention BUMIS on this site, it is because we think it is relevant to what you are reading.

We are on a mission to help people become their best selves through self-knowledge while dating in this new era.